“Hi Neighbor!”
September 4, 2012 Leave a comment
Judy Van Dyke–Good Samaritan Ministries
Across the street from Shannon, one of our Community Connector’s, lives an elderly neighbor, Mary. Mary has lived in the neighborhood for 34 years yet didn’t know many neighbors around her. Because of this she didn’t involve herself with the things happening on her block.
Shannon took a chance one day and walked over to Mary’s house when she was having a yard sale. This was the start of many times that Shannon said “Hi” to Mary as she walked through the neighborhood. During that time Mary began to hear neighbors yelling, “Hi, Neighbor” to each other on the block. This was also something new that the neighbors started doing together.
One day, Shannon was surprised when Mary yelled out, “Hi, Neighbor” as she walked by. This was a turning point for Mary. Over time Shannon was able to learn her name and they had many more conversations.
During that time Mary received a code violation letter from the city regarding the disrepair of the exterior of her home, garage and her backyard. She also has problems with collecting material items to the point where it was affecting her emotionally and the way she lived. Through the collaborative efforts of the City of Holland, Evergreen Commons – a local non-profit serving senior citizens, Good Samaritan Ministries and our neighborhood connectors, Mary was able to fix up her home.
One weekend Mary and her husband John, some family members, neighbors, and Shannon picked up rocks, cleaned out trash, and pulled weeds in the backyard. Next they built a fence, painted the garage, patched concrete steps, and trimmed the house windows. Since then Mary is more talkative with the kids and neighbors around her. She now has a big garden in the backyard with potatoes, peppers, and tomatoes. She called Shannon over to see the first vegetables of the season, and gave her the biggest tomato to take home. She is sharing her vegetables with the neighborhood and is excited about having a veggie party when she harvests the garden.
Shannon didn’t even realize Mary had a husband before this happened because she never saw him. Now John comes outside and sits in his green chair in the front yard and talks with the neighbors. A simple gesture of saying, “Hi, Neighbor” has made a big difference in the lives of neighbors living together on one small block. Imagine what could happen if every block started intentionally saying, “Hi, Neighbor.”
** Good Samaritan Ministries provides leadership for this neighborhood site development with four neighborhood churches and a community partner. Two full-time Community Connectors serve as AmeriCorps volunteers to do Asset Based Community Development in this central city of Holland neighborhood.